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Cob: finishing projects, truths about owner-buildersAmanda Peck ap615 at hotmail.comFri Aug 15 08:50:01 CDT 2003
I'm learning this of myself as well. Pretty good at researching, fair at planning and buying stuff, terrible at following through on my lists--even worse at getting down there and doing stuff. But I tend to be slow starting but more predictable at finishing at other kinds of projects--quiltmaking, for instance. I expect that all huge projects like this are exercises in knowing oneself. But the perfectionists among us may have another problem. I have friends who've lived in their owner-built houses for 20-25 years. They're still not what they would call "finished." Of course this has something to do with the fact that since they built it, they also get to remodel. And I'm seeing bad decisions made by people who are getting in a hurry to move in, cheaping out on materials, rushing the planning process with the result that they are constantly changing their minds about what they need to do--and strangely enough this results in postponing the day they get to move in--or maybe worse, moving in to something like the Lincoln home in Southern Indiana, only three walls and a roof, the 4th omitted because it took too long, they didn't have the trees nearby, or whatever. I'm delighted to see people on this list start with "Oh, wow, free house" then go through the soul-searching, the planning and the building. Good thought from a writer of psychic advice: If you want to change your circumstances (house or anything else) hating the current version is the worst thing you can do. It leads to bad decisions, maybe because you know you have some responsibility for the current situation, maybe because you rush and grab the first idea that comes along without doing the planning that you need to do for a huge undertaking like building a house. End of sermon. The "you" definitely does include "me" in this. ............... From: "Mary Hooper" <mjhooper at trccomputing.com>(snipped) Once I learn how things are done, I often don't bother completing the project. I have friends who complete every project before starting another... this is worth consideration I think before taking on a cob project..... and worth knowing about oneself before contemplating digging a hole in the yard and filling it with gravel and collecting a stack of building materials.... _________________________________________________________________ MSN 8 helps eliminate e-mail viruses. Get 2 months FREE*. http://join.msn.com/?page=features/virus
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